In the appoinment I explained all of my symptoms, that my grandmother has celiac, and that when I tried going gluten free for three weeks, ALL of the symptoms went away.
I went through the exam and then he started talking about this and that... he said celiac is not really hereditary, so just because my grandma has it doesn't mean anything at all, basically. And granted, just because a family member has it doesn't mean I will get it, yeah true, but he made it seem like it was not a possibility at ALL, which contradicts every bit of reading I've done on celiac. I explained that my symptoms were extremely similar to my grandma's, and that's why we (my family and I) began to suspect it in the first place. He more or less shrugged it off.
One of the symptoms I'd described was ongoing depression. At one point during the consultation, he said that anti-depressants could both alleviate the depression AND bowel symptoms. He also said something along the lines of the diet is too hard to pursue without an actual diagnosis. I nearly told him that I'd go gluten-free after the endoscopy no matter WHAT the diagnosis was, but I got the feeling that he really wouldn't respect that at all. He also brought up that it "could just be IBS".
Something about that appointment just rubbed me the wrong way. I understand that there are other possibilities and I'm GLAD to be checking out all of them just to make sure I get the proper treatment in the end. But he didn't seem to respect my opinions and feelings at all.
Well, I went back home and continued eating (more) gluten again, at this doctor's request, so that the biopsy results could be conclusive. This week my health has gotten progressively worse, and all my symptoms have come back. My "brain fog" is so bad I can't even drive. I'm 20 years old, so that's kind of a problem. My dad, having seen me both on gluten and off recognizes that gluten is at least a part of the problem and was getting pretty concerned about my health. He made a phone call to the GI yesterday to voice his concerns and see if nothing else could be done in the meantime so that I can, well, live life.
My dad says the phone call was just a couple minutes long. The doctor told him he couldn't tell him much because they didn't have my permission, which is ridiculous, considering that I SIGNED a form giving the clinic permission to release information to both my mom and dad.
The doctor then called me and said "your dad is concerned and says that you can't function." It seemed a little sarcastic to me. I told the doctor he could have talked to my dad, I HAD signed paperwork releasing info to him. He talked about the symptoms my dad had listed, such as sleep, inability to drive, stomach pain, etc. I confirmed that, saying my mind was too fuzzy to concentrate and I'd been sleeping for 12 hours a night and still feeling exhausted, etc. He said that I might consider calling my regular doctor about the sleep problems and getting on medication for that. I explained that when I was not eating gluten, I slept 8 hours a night and had LOADS of energy. Nevermind that I explained all this to him in the first appointment. How dare I come up with my own reasons for taking charge of my health? Grrrr...
His advice? Apparently I can "stop eating gluten until the tests, there should be enough damage if it's there", but in the meantime, if I DO eat gluten and start throwing up, I should head to the emergency room.
My dad came home from work pretty upset. I get a bad feeling from this GI, but I can't really put my finger on why. Well, probably because I don't think he respects me. My dad feels the same way, so I guess it's not just me.
My biopsy is scheduled for a week from Wednesday. I'm not entirely sure I want to go through with it, but it's the soonest thing I've got. In any case, after the biopsy I'm getting a new GI. This guy is not working out...
