QUOTE (VioletBlue @ Feb 24 2008, 01:50 PM)

One poor woman mentioned cheese allergies and they got nasty with her. I came to her defense in what I thought was a non aggressive manner and got shouted down as well. My favorite comment was the ding-a-ling who said "Just take an allergy pill".
Well, I know you can have a nut case on any message board but the way this is set up in the recipe area doesn't really encourage it. I am focusing my efforts in the area where it asks for comments from people who have tried the recipe and give their reviews. If people can say needs more salt or needs less pepper, I feel I can say works well with soy as a sub or if you don't eat wheat use the rice noodles instead of corm.
I first choose a defining name using GFCF in the name. I am trying basic recipes at first and giving my ratings and comments. After I have some up I am going to start trying recipes that call for pasta or milk. I still encounter way too many people who think we are some frumpy, twig eating, hippie types. We have actually had people accept invites out of curiosity only to find out we were "NORMAL". "Your stove is newer then mine!", "You have air conditioning", "You have furniture"...it gets down right scary at times when you hear the confessions.
The stereotype needs to be broken and they need to recognize that we can also be the teacher, the lawyer, the mom/dad, the company president...